Friday 8 August 2014

Leaving the aldea :( (plus lots of aldea photos)

Leaving the aldea was really, really difficult. I know it sounds silly but it hadn't even occured to us that leaving the aldea was a possibility - we'd been there so long it was hard to imagine living anywhere else. So the day before we left we had our despedida - kind of like a leaving party - so the whole aldea had lunch outside together which was so lovely (especially since it was our favourite aji de gallina). It's always nice having lunch outside with everyone - to be able to spend time with all the kids together instead of all separately in the casas. So that was cute. Our wee baby Jandi kept running up to us and standing between our knees the whole time. I think that really made it hit home how long we'd been there because she's still really nervous around a lot of the kids and adults in the aldea that she doesn't know, but she's just spent so much time with us in our house. After having lunch the aldea staff all called us up and made what was a really emotional speech for us - saying how much work we've done and how we've helped them, how we've become such a part of the family that the aldea is. It was so sad, Amy and I were sobbing our eyes out it mustn't have been a nice sight. And we hadn't even left by that point!

Our despedida

Our despedida

With the directora

the whole aldea!

The day we left was possibly the hardest day in my life. We had to say goobye to Jandi, Fatima and Estrella, the three litte ones we looked after every morning for the majority of the year. That was really difficut, especially because they couldn't understand what was going on. Fatima kept saying to us can I come to your house, can I draw, can I do jigsaws, like we always did with them. That was probaly the most difficult part. It was also really hard to leave behind our Tia Carla, she's in the house directly opposite from our house so we saw her loads and she would always come over and ask for plastic bags (chicaaaas! quiero bolsas!) haha or just to have a wee chat with us. We miss her loads, her happy smiling personality, the way she is constantly in a good mood and laughing and having a joke with the kids.

Now that we've left I can see how much a part of the aldea we had become. I didn't see it then but now looking back on it more from an outsider's view I can see how much had changed since when we arrived back in August last year which seems like a complete lifetime ago, not just a year. I hadn't realised how comfortable I had become with looking after little children, 1, 2, or 3 years old - before I came I'd had no experience whatsoever of looking after wee ones.

About a month before we left we decided we wanted to make a tree with all the kids' hands painted on it, to stick up in our house. That was really good fun to do with all the kids, starting with the very littlest ones (it tickled some of their hands, cutest thing ever) up to the 17 and 18 year olds. It also meant we could spend some time with each and every child individually before we left the aldea, which was really nice.


Amy painting wee Jandi's hand!
putting Jandi's hand on the tree!
our tree before most of the kids' hands

We also had a Hawaiian themed week with the kids. We printed out tiki masks for the 4-5 year olds to colour in and we had a little sort of party in the house with them. That was really fun. They all love to draw and colour in and they also loved running about with their masks on (they got jelly out of it too, kids love jelly). We had a big hoola hoop so they all had bags of fun with that as well. We'd put decorations up and we had coconuts and grass skirts and it realy felt like Hawaii. Only problem was that none of the kids knew where Hawaii was or that these kinds of things are meant to be typically Hawaiian. We still had fun though!!

the kids colouring in their tiki masks

Renzo with his tiki mask

all the wee ones with their finished tiki masks!!

Alex having fun with the hoola hoop

The aldea also celebrated father's day so there were big celebations for that. The whole main office staff and the tias along with Amy and I had a nice meal together in the main hall and we celebrated and sort of congratulated all the male staff. There are 7 out of around 20 in total, including all the tias as well - so they work in the library, the storeroom, the guard at the main gate,or just general maintenance of the aldea. Then later on there was a big show with the whole aldea where every house put on a dance performance. That was really fun to watch (thankfully not participate in).

meal with all the admin staff and tias

casa 5's hilarious dance

casa 10 did a rendition of "Grease"

after lunch with Luis and Nicolas

Now that we've been away travelling it feels like our 10 months in the aldea was our year and now we're just kind of in limbo before we go home. It's a strange feeling, not having a home to go back to and constantly packing in and out of our big rucksacks (that is something I will definitely not miss!). I can't wait to go home and see all my friends and famiy that I've been missing so much for so long but I already miss the aldea and the kids so much it's unreal and I know I'm going to miss the general hustle and bustle of hectic Peruvian life. I love travelling by mototaxi when we can, that's definitely one of the truly South American things that you just don't get anything like  back home. They're like little motorbikes with a trailer/seat thing attatched to the back that take you everywhere just like taxis do (for a lot cheaper). Except half the time you're falling out because there's no sides to hold you in or you're worrying about your bag because it's behind the seat where you can't keep an eye on it and it's completely open to the people walking about right next to it. It's such a fun ride, I will never forget my first mototaxi experience. It's just one of the things you have to do if you're in South America at any point. I will also miss the food loads. I've acquired such a Peruvian taste for food. I am in love with ceviche, Peru's national dish which is raw fish marinated in Peruvian limes, chillies and onions. It is so beautiful oh my gosh.

Talking of food we looove this dish called aji de gallina. It's like shredded chicken in a pepper sauce, so yummy. So we decided we wanted to learn how to make it so we asked our lovely Tia Carla if she would teach us! It was so much fun, I love cooking so I really wanted to be able to make some traditional Peruvian food for when I got home - starting with this!

Tia Carla showing us how to prepare aji de gallina

the finished dish!
To finish I'll just leave you all with some photos of the aldea - sorry I've not been very good at uploading lots of photos up until now!!

(sorry half the photos are of Amy and not me, I was the one taking the photos!!)

Amy with Jandi and Matias

Amy with Matias and Renzo

Luis, Nicolas, Renzo and Matias when we went to the pool with the whole aldea

Amy with Matias at the pool - he was so scared to go in!!

Jandi with her adorable wee bib - meaning "do you want to play with me? go on, say yes!!"

what we spent our mornings doing with the wee ones - plastic bricks and barbies featured a lot

Amy with the little ones in the aldea pool during summertime

Me with Alfredo, Jandi, Fatima, Matias and Renzo

Fatima and Matias drinking their water which they would constantly ask for ("aaguaa!! quiero aaaagua!")

I'm so sorry I've not written about so many things that have happened. I only realise I've forgotten everything when I go through my photos and realise I've not put any of them up!! I'll try to cover as much as possible now though!

So for Valentine's Day we made little hearts with the 4-5 year olds for them to colour in and then we had a treasure hunt where they had to look for hearts we'd stuck up around the house.




A few weeks later we made little crowns and then fish made from toilet rolls. Even though it's a nightmare to have paintbrushes in 4 year olds' hands and going everywhere, they really love to paint so we always tried as much as possible to make sure they were able to do things on their own and didn't need too much of our help, they didn't get paint ALL over their clothes and that of course they had fun!!

Luis painting his crown

Matias and Alex with their finished crowns

Andrea and Alex with their fish

We also went to Huanchaco beach with the whole aldea during the summer holidays (December - March) which was really good fun. It's always good for the kids to get out of the aldea, expecially the ones that don't go out to go to school or anything. They enjoyed themselves so much, especially the wee ones of course.
(unfortunately it wasn't a very sunny day :( )


Renzo and Andrea at the beach


Fatima being adorable

some of the older kids stuck in the sand! (Miriam, Alondra, Junior, Kristell and Raquel)





 Other photos from our day to day aldea life...

Jandi being a wee cutie
Me and Matias (not looking very happy actually haha)

Me with Analy

Fatima is extraordinarily ticklish

Estrella, Jandi, Renzo and Fatima
Jandi and Renzo are possibly two of the cutest wee kids ever. They're both in casa 2 together, the only 2 little ones and they're literally like brother and sister. Renzo really looks out for Jandi which is the most adorable thing. She's always happy when he's around and they could play together for hours!!
Jandi and Renzo
One day in the aldea we looked out the window and saw all the little ones having a massive grass fight outside, throwing all the freshly cut grass at each other haha, it was hilarious. It's lucky hayfever doesn't really exist in Peru otherwise everyone would have been going mental!!



when they realised we were watching them...they turned on us

For Mother's Day we made little ice-lolly stick things for the kids to give to their tias.




Another day we made some dreamcatchers with the older girls which was so much fun and we all got a pretty dreamcatcher out of it! It was actually really easy to do once you get the hang of it.




Other aldea photos...


Estrella and Fatima

Me with Jandi
having fun with Alex (6) and Matias (3)



Jandi!!

Me with Fatima

Renzo and Leonel
A few weeks before we left the aldea we got quite a few new kids in. We got a new 3 year old boy called Juan David along with his big sisters Marilu (11), Janeth (13), and Vicki (14). Also a new little 2 year old boy called Ricardo (plus 2 older sisters aged 5 and 8) so they both joined in with our morning baby sessions with the other 1-2 year olds (Jandi, Fatima and Estrella). It was strange having little boys in the house since our drawers are all full of barbies and girly things to play with! (we had to root around for some cars).

Fatima, Ricardo, Estrella

Estrella, Fatima and Ricardo (they don't know how to smile properly)

Alex happy with his drawing in my scrapbook

Amy and I

Estrella modelling in front of our tree of hands (not quite finished)








About a week before we left the aldea wee Jandi had her nose bitten by something, she had an allergic reaction to whatever it was and her nose turned into a giant red tomato. It was absolutely hilarious just seeing her so small and oblivious to what had happened to her and everyone laughing at how adorably funny it was.

Ricardo and Jandi drawing (with her massive red nose of course)


Amy, Amelia, Me and Cass in Huanchaco after we'd left the aldea


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